The Politics of Being Seen
PART THREE
I think this is where the conversation often loses its humanity entirely.
Because people desperately want women to fit into clean categories.
Empowered or insecure.
Sacred or performative.
Liberated or attention-seeking.
Victim or narcissist.
But real human beings are rarely that tidy.
Because even within algorithmic spaces, not all sensuality is the same.
There is a difference between erotic self-expression, artistic embodiment, confidence, performance, commodification, advertising, manipulation and unconscious validation-seeking.
Sometimes those things overlap. Sometimes they don’t.
Human beings are complicated.
And women are not stupid.


