CHASING REFLECTIONS
Wk7 - Discernment
There comes a moment when desire stops being mysterious, because you finally see what it’s been asking for all along.
This is where the story shifts from longing, to discernment.
From chemistry, to capacity.
From intensity, to truth.
Week Seven of Chasing Reflections moves into the questions that end the chase not by shutting desire down, but by asking better things of it.
What is the difference between feeling activated and feeling safe?
Between being desired and being chosen?
Between wanting someone and being able to build something with them?
The full piece goes into the anatomy of this shift - where attraction is no longer enough, and staying becomes the metric.
To read the full instalment, you’ll need to subscribe. Each week’s paid piece is longer, more detailed and more embodied than what’s shared publicly.
And before we continue again, another reminder for the women reading:
If this series has stirred something real in you (around desire, attachment, intensity, or intimacy) I’m currently offering 1:1 somatic sex coaching sessions for women.
This is grounded, practical work.
Rebuilding trust with your body.
Understanding your nervous system in love.
Learning the difference between chemistry and capacity in real time.
If you feel called to explore this work more personally, you’re welcome to reach out to book.
Alright.
Let’s get honest.