CHASING REFLECTIONS
Wk3 - Orbit & Seeking
There is a particular ache that lives in the space between closeness and contact.
Not in their absence, but rather, proximity without yet landing…
This is the ache of orbit.
Of circling something that feels charged, meaningful, almost… buuut never quite arrives.
In this part of Chasing Reflections, I’m interested in what happens when longing is kept alive by distance. When restraint feels like intimacy. When wanting becomes its own language, and not touching begins to feel holy.
This is also where seeking becomes subtle.
Where reaching doesn’t look like desperation, but like discernment.
Like intuition.
Like trusting what feels true in the body.
What follows explores both the erotic tension of not-yet and the nervous system habits that keep us leaning forward instead of arriving.
If you’ve ever lingered in connection without contact…
If you’ve ever told yourself you weren’t chasing, but listening to your body…
This is the territory we’re stepping into now.
But before we enter this week’s work, I want to invite my female readers to join me next Sunday.
If the themes of Chasing Reflections are landing in your body, the ache of wanting, the pull of orbit, the quiet exhaustion of seeking without landing, I’m holding an in-person space for women to explore this together.
On February 8, I’m facilitating
Rewilding Women: Desire, Discernment & Embodied Magnetism.
This is not a sexuality workshop about being more confident or more desirable.
It’s a circle devoted to self-trust, embodied desire, and learning how to listen to your body without outsourcing your authority.
You’ll find full details and tickets via the Eventbrite link below.
Rewilding Women: Desire, Discernment & Embodied Magnetism.
